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» You Can Keep your Life in Balance
»Exercise- What are the major elements of your job? (Admin, preparation, speaking, pastoral, training etc)
- How do you divide up your time?
- How does that compare to how you would most want your time to be divided?
- What are the biggest pressures & stresses on your time?
- How do you cope when you are most stressed?!
»Some Basic TipsPut the big things in first - relationship with God
- space to prepare
- time for people
- personal needs
- time off & holidays
Guard your gauges - Spiritual
- Physical: days / time off / exercise / eating right
- Social: family / friends
- Emotional: fun!
- Intellectual: reading, stretching
Be accountable - articles: spiritual attacks on leaders
- not just for “moral” issues but in how you use your time, and in your approach
- sample accountability questions
Value your most important tools: - an organiser (diary, palm, outlook, mobile)
- your contract (see later)
- your management (also later – don’t let the congregation, yp, leaders etc manage u!)
- good friends (spouse, etc)
- the word “NO”!
Develop systems & habits) "..busyness is a subtle form of procrastination in which we fill our lives with activity to avoid doing what really needs doing...the more we avoid something the great the resistence become...our life-management system needs to ive us a mentod of overcoming resistance" (Mark Forster "Get Everything Done" p 71/2) Live for an audience of One - you can never do it all
- your inbox won't be empty when you die…
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