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» Effective communication will keep you sane (Phil Thompson)
Communicating in team ministry (Phil 2:19-22)Below are some links to external articles related to our seminars Communication problems can arise between you and minister because: - You represent one constituency, your minister represents many
- Busyness
- Jealousy
- Differing goals in ministry
What should you expect of your minister? - Regular one-to-one meetings
- Will be your pastor
- Will give lead in prayer support for you in the congregation
Unrealistic expectations of your minister: - Minister can meet you at the drop of a hat
- Will always take your side in a dispute
- Will be your best friend
COMMUNICATING WITH THE ELDERS (1 Pete 5:1-5) - Understand the source of their authority
- Avoid undermining their authority in front of young people
- Secure a regular slot to update the Kirk Session
- Ask individual elders for advice – give them ‘ownership’
COMMUNICATING WITH THE CONGREGATION (Eph 4:1-5) - Remember you have a ministry beyond your young people
- Be well prepared for any input into worship services
- Look for opportunities to share your passion for youth ministry with other groups e.g. volunteer to talk to PWA, Senior Citizen’s Fellowship
- Don’t intentionally set out to shock/upset the congregation
COMMUNICATING WITH YOUTH WORK VOLUNTEERS (Phil 1:3-6) - Keep meetings to a minimum
- Spend time with individual volunteers
- Respect long-established youth work – even where change is needed
- Tackle problem people head-on
WHAT’S THE SECRET TO GOOD COMMUNICATION? (Phil 2:1-11) All of our relationships should be characterised by grace and a Christlike attitude. That can mean treating others in the right way even when they are not gracious towards you!
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